Selected Extracts - Tarbiyyat Medical - Jul-Sep 2010

http://www.tarbiyyat.org/TarbMedical/July_September2010_TarbMedical.pdf

The Promised Messiah alaihissalam says:
“People do wish to have children but not so that they should be helpers of faith, but rather so that they would have someone to succeed them after death on this earth. And when they do have children, then they do not worry about their moral reformation. Neither is any correction made of their beliefs”
Al Hakam Vol5 page 35

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HA Z R AT MUS L EH MAUOOD ( M A Y A L L A H
B E P L E A S E D W I T H H I M ) H A S M E N T I O N E D 2 6
P O I N T S R E L A T I N G T O T A R B I Y Y A T O F C H I L D R E N
I N H I S B O O K C A L L E D M I N H A J U T A L I B E E N .
T H E S E C O N D P O I N T I S T O :
Kee p children clean as the external
has an influence on the internal –
the SOUL.

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Influence of external
factors on a child!
„A child should be kept neat and tidy and, should be
properly cleaned after stools. Some of you might say
that this particular chore belongs to the mother. This
is true. But it is equally true that the mother will
perform it properly only if the father is properly
orientated in this regard. It is men's duty to bring
home to women the fact that an unclean child will not
have a clean mind. Unfortunately not much attention
is paid to this matter. Women are sometimes guilty of
grave negligence in this regard. ...................‟
„How can you look after the inner cleanliness of the
child if you do not look after its external cleanliness?
Let the child have a clean body. Its impact on his
mind will be great. As a consequence, the child will
come to have a clean mind and will become immune
to sins which are caused by un-cleanliness. Medical
research bears out that a child commits its first sin
because it is dirty. Dirt irritates the anal passages
which the child rubs and manipulates. It finds
pleasure in the process and becomes conscious of
sex. It can be safeguarded against sexual eros to a
very large extent if it is kept clean. This training must
begin the very day it is born.‟
Mirza Mahmood Ahmad, Kahlifatul Masih II
Minhajutalibeen

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If morals are corrected right from the beginning
then there is no question that a child will stand up
to their parents and argue with them.
I have already mentioned this once before.
There is children’s’ attire, the attire of girls
particularly. Attention needs to be drawn to this
right from early childhood – age 4 to 5 years old.
Only if attention is drawn from this age will they
begin to realise its importance when they grow
up. If you try to make them realise at the age of
14 or 15 years telling them to stop wearing jeans
and start wearing a coat instead, then the girl will
react to it.
Hazrat Khalifatul Masih V (25.9.2009)

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The Holy Prophet Muhammad SalAllaho Alaihi wasallam said:
“When any of you drinks, then do not breathe into the vessel from which you are drinking, and when any of you goes to the washroom, then should not touch your private parts with the right hand, and neither should you use the right hand to wash yourself after passing urine” Bukhari, Kitab ul Wodo.

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